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Dilema on remaining feelings for girl I used to see, and next steps

Let her kind of just vent and lead the pace of the conversation, just show her that you’re listening and that you can follow it and that her feelings mean so much to me. I even tell her that. I tell her, Honey I can see how important this is to you, and your feelings are important to me so that means this is important to me. The bystander effect, or bystander apathy, is a social psychological theory that states that individuals are less likely to offer help to a victim when there are other people present. First proposed in 1964, much research, mostly in the lab, has focused on increasingly varied factors, such as the number of bystanders, ambiguity, group cohesiveness, and diffusion of responsibility that ... Always remember Allah is every where he can see us any where doing any thing , he knows deepest secrets of heart even we dont know what we have in our hearts but Allah knows , In islam , if once u just see a women turn your face and dont look back if u look by mistake its ok but if u look back again its haram , its forbidden , same is for women ... Hope Spencer (née Logan, formerly Forrester) is a character from the CBS Daytime soap opera, The Bold and the Beautiful, currently portrayed by Annika Noelle. Hope is the daughter of Brooke Logan Forrester and Deacon Sharpe. Between the years of 2002 and 2009, the character was played by child actresses, and appeared as a young girl around 5 years old by 2007. On December 4, 2009, it was ... I’ve been estranged from my daughter for about 5 years,she texts me every 2 months but I haven’t seen her or my 5 year old granddaughter in 4 years.My granddaughter&I were very close and I miss her a lot.My daughter isn’t talking to me because we bought a house together 6 years ago and sold it 2 years later.She couldn’t buy me out.I wanted the house sold because of her husband,my son ... Expatica is the international community’s online home away from home. A must-read for English-speaking expatriates and internationals across Europe, Expatica provides a tailored local news service and essential information on living, working, and moving to your country of choice. With in-depth features, Expatica brings the international community closer together. We see each other 3-4 times a week, he calls me everyday, we vacation together, I have met his family and friends and he has met mine. We attend all family functions together. He has told me he is in love me, wants to be with me, does not want to be with anyone else but will not call me his lady friend, companion or any other label. A double bind is a dilemma in communication in which an individual (or group) receives two or more reciprocally conflicting messages. In some scenarios (e.g. within families or romantic relationships) this can be emotionally distressing, creating a situation in which a successful response to one message results in a failed response to the other (and vice versa), such that the person responding ... The two feelings people with narcissism tend to ... to recognize your dilema/condition. ... to guide them to grow and feel as close to feelings as they can get. Baby steps as they truly are ... Isabelle October 22nd, 2012 at 10:48 AM . I think that a large part of whether or not this happens is exactly how close the relatiosnhip was with the steps.

2022.01.28 02:53 CheckMate478 Dilema on remaining feelings for girl I used to see, and next steps

First, sincere apologies in advance. I started writing down all the things that seemed relevant to my situation, then when I went to edit it after I realised I had written up a goddamn college essay (2400 fucking words) realised there wasn’t really anything that I could afford to take out because it all played into the bigger picture. So, grab some popcorn, get comfy and enjoy my self-pity ramblings. I’ve also posted this on dating_advice and heartbreak so I can get as much advice as possible.
In September, I started seeing a girl I had met online. When I tell you guys that I felt so happy and secure with her, man. Easily the best part of my 2021, well until the back end away but that’s later. I’d take days off work (I’m employed casually so not that much of a fuss) because she’d get off work at 9, have until 2 to start the afternoon shift and lived on the other side of the city to me but wanted to do something in between shifts like shopping. I met her friends and realised I was going to spend more time with them than my own friends and didn’t really mind, but still had plans for her to meet my friend groups. One of the Christmas presents I had planned to buy for her was the first picture of us together at her friend’s Halloween party printed onto a block of birch wood, the odd couple of Little Red Riding Hood and… late 80’s James Hetfield of Metallica (I told her about the other two presents I had planned, but to this day the only way she could know about that one was if she asked her friend I texted for the photo at the time). She was the first person I texted when my Uni placement offered to keep me on in a paid position for this year. I made sure someone filmed the last race of my competitive swimming career to send to her because she had been rostered to work at that time and couldn’t get a swap. You get the idea. I thought this was the best thing to happen to me in a long time, and the best shot I’ve had at a serious long-term relationship in an even longer time.
Then one day in December she didn’t text me. Writing it down like that it sounds stupid, but the way we had communicated to this point something was off for that to happen. I did eventually get a message from her, where she apologised for going MIA on me and explaining that she was really going through emotional shit with her family (She had mentioned to me her relationship with her parents wasn’t fantastic. Nothing abusive or dangerous, but a fair amount of butting heads) and just needed time and space to deal with it, telling me that she left me alone because she didn’t want to lash out at me in anger over the things she was dealing with because I deserve better than to be treated to that. I told her fair enough, said I appreciated that she did what she did to protect me and that I would be there when she was feeling better. I did break and after a few days sent her a message along the lines of ‘don’t reply, but still thinking of you’, which she obviously proceeded to reply to, thanking me and basically saying she still needed a bit of time but was heading in the right direction.
Finally, after some time, I get a text from her asking when I was free to meet up again, saying she’d love to spend a day where it’s just the two of us, so after waiting until the following weekend because of schedules, we went for a long hike and a lunch in the morning/afternoon before heading into the city to explore some of the markets, grab an early dinner and watch Elf together at the outdoor theatre the council had set up. I drove her home after all this, and then as I was helping her pack up her stuff, she kisses me for the first time. Now, it’s been nearly 3 months at this point, and we’ve only just kissed. I’m aware of how painfully slow that sounds, and yes, there were moments beforehand where I definitely would’ve liked to kiss her, but I have a tendency to look too deeply into situations and second-guess myself romantically. More on that later when it’s a little more important.
After that night though, she went really quiet on me. There wasn’t nearly as much life in her messages to me anymore, everything was 1-2 word responses, no humour. Eventually she asked to meet me at a cafe in the few hours she had between work shifts. At that point I figured what was coming and sure enough, after panic-texting my mate the night before in a bid to calm myself down, 3 days before Christmas she told me that she didn’t really feel like she had the emotional energy and space for a relationship, but also that she felt she was more comfortable with what we had being a friendship as opposed to developing into a romantic relationship.
She elaborated saying she didn’t feel like we ever really did anything to progress romantically. She did say multiple times though that she definitely wasn’t playing blame games, and that it takes two to tango, basically saying that I shouldn’t feel bad for letting it reach that point because she also could have very easily done something to make us more clearly romantic. She was also adamant that she still wanted to be friends with me regardless, saying that we had done too much together, got on too well and knew each other too well to not come out friends, which I agree with her on. The only other thing worth mentioning from the conversation itself is that I asked her if she was sure and that there definitely wasn’t anything I could do to change her mind there and then, she said no, I then asked if she thought that, once she had gone away and processed and moved on from everything else happening there was a chance we could start again from a dating perspective, she thought for a moment and said she didn’t think so. After we left the café and I had a little more time to process what just happened, I told her that I was going to need a break between us, just as a reset so that I could come back as a proper friend, not someone who was still chasing her. As you can tell, it’s gone about as well as expected. At this point it's worth pointing out that because of how this went, we never hit the point of us being official but I wanted to even if I never got around to telling her, if that changes the advice at all.
The first 48 hours were hell. Every little thing reminded me of her. I sent off essays to 3 different friends because I felt the need to write down everything I was thinking, then when that didn’t feel good enough, I needed to send it to a mate so I at least had the release of someone else knowing what was going on with me mentally. I even made the stupid, stupid mistake, for which I have since apologised, of texting her friend asking if I could vent to them, because and I quote, ‘I miss her already but I’ve told her I need some space to process it, so I’m thinking of doing the next best thing and texting someone close to her’. Note: I did say to the friend that if she wasn’t comfortable, I would leave her alone, which she definitely and rightfully was not. Fair play, she was sympathetic and understanding about it, and said some nice and reassuring words to me which sobered me up enough to realise I’d be best leaving her group alone. I also haven’t spoken to anyone in the group since besides the same friend to apologise and nothing else.
It slowly got better over the next few days, but then New Year’s started to come around and I crashed down again. I had planned to be her +1 to a New Year’s party, but obviously that changed and in my wallowing I hadn’t organised to do anything different, so I wandered through the city alone feeling super sorry for myself for a few hours before the midnight fireworks, mainly trading paths that we had been on together. I had also not yet blocked her on social media (still haven’t as we’re now back in contact), so when notifications came up of her sharing clips from the party that I wasn’t at and her Facebook 2021 review post that didn’t feature me once, I couldn’t help but open them up, making things even worse.
Funnily enough though, she actually called me, a little after midnight. I checked my phone at one point and saw I had a missed call from her, which as I’m sure you can imagine had me running circles in my head, so I rung back but she didn’t pick up. I got a text from her a little while later saying she was sorry but actually just meant to call her little sister (we’ve got similar first names), which more or less signalled that it was time for me to go home. I only responded with a ‘fair enough, but happy New Years!’, and she did the same. As I was waiting for my train home later though, something in my brain said ‘fuck it’ and I texted her saying that if she was free (I knew there was a previously mentioned week-long beach getaway with her friends but couldn’t remember the window) I thought it’d be good if we caught up at some point. Eventually she got back to me and we sorted something out.
Meeting her again didn’t feel as weird as I had maybe feared it could’ve. We still talked about things we had done together as dates, we didn’t pretend it hadn’t happened, but most importantly the conversation was natural like it was before. Sure, there were a few things I would have said differently if a relationship was on the table, but I felt good leaving, and thought that maybe I was on the road to properly moving on. Oh boy.
The time since has just been an absolute rollercoaster, mentally and emotionally. First, her texting with me. Since we’ve been back in contact she’s started the conversation maybe twice, otherwise I’m always the one initiating. I’m letting myself start to get a little angry at this, seeing as she was the one who said she wanted to still be friends, but if she really wanted to talk then she would’ve started the conversation more frequently I would’ve thought? It wasn’t like this when we were seeing each other, and if she saw what we had as more of a friendship anyway then things shouldn’t be that different for her? And again, it doesn’t feel as lively as it was before. Given what happened while we were dating I haven’t said anything to her as things could be rough at home. I’ve tried taking extended periods of time between texting her in the hopes that she will start a conversation, and it has paid off once, but I’m desperate to talk to her and not sure how long this habit is going to last.
The situation was definitely not helped when my buddy, who bless him didn’t mean to piss me off, showed me his Hinge app about a week ago asking me if this was the girl I had been seeing, and sure enough showed me her profile but with all updated pictures, some as recent as the beach trip. Realising that she was putting herself back on the market probably sent me over the cliff a bit and has made the fall to this point probably more dramatic and quicker than it would have been had I not known. Since that, I’m back to doing some of the walks we did together and reminiscing on what we did there when I’ve got free time. It’s not been good. I’ve spent the better part of pretty much everyday thinking about her, and it pretty much always circles round to a scenario where we’re dating again.
There’s also her original point about displaying romance with each other. I’m not gonna pretend I’ve had a slew of girlfriends before, I am definitely lacking experience in that department. With time though, I feel like I still tried my best to make things romantic, certainly more than she’s giving credit for. When she was knee deep in end-of-year Uni exams, I surprised her at one of our meetups with flowers, her favourite chocolates and a $50 gift card to her favourite bookstore, which she was ecstatic about. When she finished said exams, I made sure that the movie we planned to see together was one she’d love, things like that. That said, pretty much every day since she broke things off – but considerably more in the past week since the dramatic spiral started – I’ve had a million and one thoughts of ‘what if I had said/done this instead’ for basically every stage of us being together, and I have no doubt if there’s any hope of us getting back together, it’s something I’ve got to work on, and I will do so happily if it comes to that.
As I write this, it’s been 4 days since either one of us has said anything to the other in my current no-contact bid until I figure my shit out. I think as each day goes by at the moment I’m slowly moving closer and closer to being set on trying to win her back, but I feel like doing that makes me a bad person, especially given the circumstances of her ending things. My mind has been going a million miles an hour and I could probably come up with a thousand questions, but:
· Is it worth trying to pursue another relationship with her seeing as I still feel there’s potential for it to be a long and healthy one if I improve on my ability to display romance? Is it a bad reflection on my character and personality if I do?
· Is it even appropriate for me to try and maintain a friendship?
· If I’m best off saying something now, what does that conversation look like?
· Is it appropriate for me to try the long game with her, knowing I’ve got these intense feelings towards her still at this point?
· I’m imagining that if I don’t make some kind of move soon I’ll be seeing other women before we could start again, how do I stop comparing other women to her?
· Does Valentine’s Day being around the corner change what I should do at the moment?
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Right?
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Apparently I am the reason people joke about mentors though. Because Keeper of the Lake is, according to them, high end content.
The exchange continues, but it's clear we're both hard-set in our ways
After the last boss he leaves with this exchange, utterly dripping with sweet, sweet irony. At the very least the healer I spoke with seemed amiable enough with the idea that the tank was not a perfect, flawless golden god.
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